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Dude ein don do haba
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You don’t have kids. You have only been married for one year. This is the time you should be enjoying your wife solo and shining with the joys of marriage before the true test comes when kids drop and the allure of something new starts to wean off. Not to mention supporting your spouse through post partum depression etc. Don’t blame or bring your mother in law in this matter. Both of you never loved each other and enter am just to tick marriage of the to do list. Doomed from the start. Also you are chasing Virginia I pity you, there will also be that sub conscious of what other people feel like once you start, only if she truly loves you and not keep herself in Virginia just because it’s the ‘right’ thing to do. It is harder to satisfy a girl from Virginia because there is no comparison. Only love can sustain that relationship long term. You are to blame for your woes.
Like Emeka Ike like Israel. They have a lot in common; looking for innocent young girls to groom and marry. Looking for women who will stay at home and not do anything, so they can control them. They both are the ones talking about the failed marriages the most. Both, never took responsibility for their own role in the the failed union. Both talk like kids. Both are authoritative and control freaks, should i go on? Women when you see men looking for quiet, young, naive girls please be careful because most times they’re narcissist and abusers.
When you can no longer put up with their excesses they start bad mouthing you. Please run from them.
Funny simpleton. Now that you have been served breakfast you’ve become relationship expert overnight. Please give us other news 😂😂
Hehehe O’boy let it go ! Discover the joy in a divorce and celebrate them for I believe every development come with two side effects: joy and pain
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The man is damaged. Isreal get help and get off social media. This space is not structured to air your personal frustrations. Remember that you have also entered the list of men with broken home/failed marriage. People will also investigate you for your failure. Seemed to forget too soon that you are guilty of the same thing you are accusing others for.
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No. It is the lady or ex-Wife that will be known as a woman that cannot keep her home and she is in the list of a broken home. A man simply moves on. When I saw the girl on their wedding day, I knew that the girl will never last. Nowadays you can always tell by looking and also watch her gang and the type of her friends. Women from certain homes never divorce like these bitches. Example, you can never hear that the daughter of Adeboye is divorced and she is now abusing and shaming her husband. That is almost impossible. Guys shine your eyes when you are taking a wife. Don’t take a wife from one of these WOKE independent feminist bitches. You will have yourself to blame.
Second anonymous, the fact that many Nigerian men can’t take responsibility for their actions is not something to be proud of. In fact, it is shameful. She is divorced, yes so is the man. Men like him are increasingly becoming red flags these days, it’ll shock you to know that people are alao watching his next relationship. If it doesn’t work out, it becomes all glaring just as they’re watching the woman too. Learn to take your own blame and shame, stop passing on to a woman. Be an adult, be a man! Damn it!
What he’s saying is true, anyone that comes from. a broken home,needs to pray very well before venturing into marriage, “evil family pattern” is real, if the person did not pray well,no matter how hard he or she try to make the marriage work,it will eventually collapse, he’s making a valid point
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he is making sense , same thing happened to me. great grand ma divorced single till her date of death, grand ma divorced single till her old age , mother in law divorced single till date also 50 years old life in shamble , and i fall inside the trap also
now the girl is now single also and people traced her family line and it was the same thing people said to me any girl that comes from a broken home never stays in marriage because the mama go don talk bad about men and her father to her and her brain remains at that point.
it only takes Grace of God to break that curse , wherethe lady needs to ditch out the mother first for years to build her family then later reunite back with her mother and let her know that men are good , that way she broke the curse and her mum cant say any negative things to her about marriage again
This guys should take a chill pill. When he was praising her for bringing up a virgin and when he was enjoying the tight V and speaking in tongues he didn’t complain to the world. With the way this guy is going and opening his mouth like a broken record no family will be comfortable allowing their daughter to marry him except he marries a naive girl…. Tim
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Socrates — ‘By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you’ll become a philosopher.’
You need to get your head checked out. It’s high time you understand that your actions in the public domain are not just distractions to your personal life but also to that of your employer.
He is not far from the truth, any mother in-law who cannot stick to a man or atmost 2 husbands what will she advice her daughter? At any shit – walk away.
These days mothers are grooming their daughters to become the man in their unions.
When the man wouldn’t tolerate, he is the demon and narcissistic. May God help us. Ame
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